5 - " We don't meet people by accident, they are meant to cross our path for a reason" - Rubyaanne

     Heung joh chow heung yau chow, in English Turn Left, Turn Right, is a Chinese movie. The story is about the two artistic opposite sex who are lonely and seems like their life is so plain. They already met thirteen years ago. Their love story is always postponed because of some circumstances that make them not to see each other. It is funny how they end up seeing with each other. It is because the earthquake that breaks the wall between their flats. I think what the author is trying to say that it doesn't matter how long it will take before they find each other if they are meant to be, it will happen.

     What is Destiny? Is there really such thing?

     In the Merriam-Webster Dictionary App, destiny is defined as a power that is believed to control what happens in the future. Most of the people, including me, believes in destiny. Is experiencing sadness due to the people we met or the event that happen to us is part of what we call destiny? I think it is kinda true. Why did I say so?

     For me we are destined to meet all the people we knew. Even the people who bring us sadness. We met them because there's a reason. They bring experiences to us that will somehow teach us a lesson. Lessons that are significant in life. Destiny is not just about love, it covers life. Some of us have friends that cheat on our backs. They teach us not to trust easily but the others tend to forgive them and forget what they did. We met people who we will love then will leave us. They brought sadness to us but we  learn how to cope with it and move on.

     Everything was destined. But it is our choice if we are going to let people stay on our lives. It is our choice whether we learn and remember what we experienced. Or we are just going to stay the same and let the same thing happen to us. Maybe destiny is destined to teach us.